proficient at everything else. It is also very effective. Showing some anger towards her can paradoxically engender trust, because you are behaving differently
possibly be in that camp, and now she can trust you. The more genuine and justified the anger is, the better. Handle with care, because anger can either derail the courtship or massively intensify it, since its such a powerfully arousing emotion. Its surprisingly common for strangers to make out after having a fight, and we all know about the intensity and passion of make-up sex right after a spat. Showing affection is also a tricky one. Its less tricky to direct it towards a third party, like a child or a pet, rather than the woman youre talking to. This is part of what makes a man with a child or a dog so irresistible to a woman: she is witnessing you in the act of giving affection, being a provider and nurturer. So find a subject that will allow you to demonstrate that intense, genuine emotion. The contrast between the detached, dominant persona – your masculine, yang aspect – and this display of genuine emotion – your feminine, yin aspect – is the perfect balance for creating trust in the context of attraction.\r\nSafety. This is closely related to trust and perhaps has a more physical aspect to it. First establish safety by demonstrating body language that broadcasts “I am not a threat,” and then escalate that to verbal and non-verbal behavior that communicates “I will protect
